{"id":16079,"date":"2021-12-08T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-12-08T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/?p=16079"},"modified":"2021-12-09T23:05:47","modified_gmt":"2021-12-09T21:05:47","slug":"8-12-21-surukorut-ja-suruetiketti-mourning-jewelry-and-mourning-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/?p=16079","title":{"rendered":"8\/12-21 Surukorut ja suruetiketti \/ Mourning jewelry and mourning etiquette"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Kun mietin juttuaiheita joulukalenteria varten ajattelin, ett\u00e4 haluan ehdottomasti tarinoida t\u00e4ll\u00e4 kertaa viktoriaanisesta suruetiketist\u00e4. Se tuntuu nykyihmisest\u00e4 monesti jotenkin makaaberilta ja ep\u00e4sopivaltakin. Sureminen muotina oli sekin oman aikansa ilmi\u00f6. Suremisen nosti muotiin kuningatar Victoria. Puoliso Albertin kuollessa \u00e4killisesti, Victoria oli surun murtama, vietti l\u00e4hes eristyksiss\u00e4 vuosia  ja k\u00e4ytti mustaa surupukua koko loppu el\u00e4m\u00e4ns\u00e4 ajan, 40 vuotta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Victorian esimerkki\u00e4 seuraten muutkin aikalaiset alkoivat noudattaa monimutkaisia sururituaaleja, asusteista ja puvuista n\u00e4ytt\u00e4viin hautamuistomerkkeihin ja muihin etikettis\u00e4\u00e4nt\u00f6ihin. Etiketti vaihteli sen mukaan miten l\u00e4heinen sukulainen vainaja oli ollut. Lesken tuli k\u00e4ytt\u00e4\u00e4 surupukua kaksi vuotta. Lapsensa tai vanhempansa menetyst\u00e4 surevalle suruaika oli vuoden pituinen, isovanhemmille ja sisaruksille puoli vuotta jne. T\u00e4yten\u00e4 suruaikana k\u00e4ytettiin surupukua joka oli aina musta. Naisilla siihen kuului tietynlainen krepattu silkkikangas tai muu musta mattapintainen kreppi. Jonkin ajan kuluttua krepatut osat voitiin poistaa, puhuttiin surupuvun kevennyksest\u00e4. Suruajan edetess\u00e4 siirryttiin asteittain mustasta harmaaseen, malvaan ja lopulta valkoiseen v\u00e4riin. Miehill\u00e4 suruaika oli helpompi, he kun saattoivat k\u00e4ytt\u00e4\u00e4 samaa mustaa pukua jota muutoinkin olisivat k\u00e4ytt\u00e4neet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Muun suruetiketin lis\u00e4ksi samoihin aikoihin yleistyi tapa valokuvata vainaja, joskus jopa l\u00e4hin perhe ymp\u00e4rill\u00e4\u00e4n. Erityisesti n\u00e4m\u00e4  post-mortem-kuvat ovat monille nykyihmisille kauhistus tai ainakin \u00e4ll\u00f6tys. T\u00e4ytyy kuitenkin muistaa ett\u00e4 valokuvaus oli tuolloin uusi keksint\u00f6. Jos ei ollut varaa tai mahdollisuutta ottaa kuvia el\u00e4ess\u00e4, tuo valokuva saattoi olla ainoa koskaan vainajasta otettu kuva. L\u00e4\u00e4ketiede oli 1800-luvulla viel\u00e4 melko alkeellista ja usein hoito oli vain rikkaiden saavutettavissa. Kuolema oli siis er\u00e4\u00e4ll\u00e4 tapaa paljon l\u00e4hemp\u00e4n\u00e4 tavallista ihmist\u00e4 kuin nyky\u00e4\u00e4n. Ihmiset olivat ehk\u00e4 jotenkin tottuneempia kuolleen n\u00e4kemiseen kuin nyky\u00e4\u00e4n tai asiaan suhtauduttiin yleisestikin eri tavoin, siksi valokuva kuolleesta perheenj\u00e4senest\u00e4k\u00e4\u00e4n ei tuntunut aikalaisista \u00e4ll\u00f6tt\u00e4v\u00e4lle. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aitoihin viktoriaanisen ajan suruvaatteisiin on melko harvinaista t\u00f6rm\u00e4t\u00e4, mutta surukoruja ja muuta esineist\u00f6\u00e4 saattaa osua toisinaan haaviin. Sukulaisille tai muille l\u00e4heisille l\u00e4hetettiin kutsuja muistotilaisuuteen, vainajasta teetettiin kuvia tai postikortteja. Muistoksi kannettiin surunauhaa kellonperiss\u00e4 tai avainkokassa (engl. chatelaine) ja tietysti k\u00e4ytettiin erilaisia koruja.  Surukorujen tyypillisi\u00e4 aiheita ovat kukkaa, kimppua tai kukkaseppelett\u00e4 pitelev\u00e4 k\u00e4si, risti tai medaljonki jonka sis\u00e4ll\u00e4 on vainajan kuva. Vainajan hiuksista saatettiin punoa rannekoruja, kellonperi\u00e4, korvakoruja, kaulakoruja tai niit\u00e4 saatettiin asetella upeiksi kiehkuroiksi tai punoksiksi korun sis\u00e4lle, lasin alle. Itsell\u00e4ni on kaksi sururintakorua, aiemminkin blogissa n\u00e4hty seppelett\u00e4 pitelev\u00e4 k\u00e4si sek\u00e4 uudempi hankinta, kukkanuput. Surukoruja valmistettiin yleisimmin gagaatista eli kivihiilest\u00e4 tai hiuksista. Gagaattia pyrittiin j\u00e4ljittelem\u00e4\u00e4n mustalla lasilla,  eboniitilla, puristetulla sarvella, guttaperkalla, bakeliitilla jne. Muita suru- ja muistokoruihin soveliaita materiaaleja olivat pienet helmi\u00e4ishelmet, norsunluu, posliini, kulta, hopea, markasiitit, emali yms hillityt tai tummas\u00e4vyiset materiaalit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viktoriaanisen ajan j\u00e4lkeen sureminen ei ollut en\u00e4\u00e4 ihan niin voimakkaasti pinnalla, mutta esim suru-hunnut s\u00e4ilyiv\u00e4t k\u00e4yt\u00f6ss\u00e4 viel\u00e4 1950-60-lukuihin asti ja mustia vaatteita pidet\u00e4\u00e4n l\u00e4nsimaissa edelleenkin soveliaimpana hautajaisasuina. Eri puolilla maailmaa toki hautajaisperinteet ovat erilaisia ja musta ei ole surun v\u00e4ri kaikkialla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"214\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/inenglish.gif?resize=214%2C100\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7004\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When I was thinking about what to post in my Christmas calendar, I thought I would absolutely want to tell you about Victorian mourning. It seems a bit macabre to a modern person. Perhaps even a little unsuitable. Mourning was a phenomenon of it&#8217;s time. It was made popular by Queen Victoria. When her husband Prince Albert suddenly died, she was devastated by grief. She spent years isolated from public and wore black mourning attire for the rest of her life, 40 years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After the example by Victoria, others of her time started to follow complicated mourning rituals, from outfits to elaborate tombstones and other rules of etiquette. Mourning etiquette varied depending how close person the deceased was to a person. Widow(er)&#8217;s mourning was two years. To those who lost their child or parents it was a year long, mourners of their grandparents or siblings it was 6 months and so on. On full mourning the outfit was always completely black. Usually it was combined with black creped silk or other matte black crepe fabric. After while those crepe details could be removed, it was called slithing the mourning. During the mourning period, people slowly advanced from black to gray, mauve and finally to white colour. For men the mourning was much easier, they could just wear the black suit they probably would wear anyway. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In addition of the actual mourning etiquette, it became common to photograph the deceased, sometimes with the living family by their side. Especially these post-mortem photos are quite shocking or atleast disgusting to modern people. However we have to remember that photography was relatively new invention. If people could not afford or otherwise were not able to get their portait taken, it was taken after their death. It might have been the only ever photo taken of them. Modern medicine was still quite crude and treatments often available only for those with wealth. Death was, in a way, much closer to people than nowadays. People might have been more used to seeing dead than now or their attitude towards death was different in general. For these reasons, photo of their dead family member was not disgusting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here in Finland it is very rare to find authentic victorian era mourning clothes, but sometimes you bump into mourning jewelry or other items. Allthough here in Finland mourning was not as elaborate as in England. Here people used to send invitations to funerals but in UK they even had photos or postcards made or carried mourning ribbons on their watches or chatelaines. Jewelry was common way to mourn because it was easy to do. Often the mourning jewelry was shape of a hand, holding flower, bouquet or basked, perhaps a cross-shaped or medallion with persons picture inside. If hair was used, skillfull artists created fancy weaves or curls of them. Earrings, necklaces, brooches, watch fobs or rings were made of hair, or created beautiful curls which were placed under glass inside brooch or pendant.  I have two mourning brooches. I have shown the hand with floral wreath in the blog before, but I don&#8217;t think you have seen this other one. Typically jewelry was made of jet or deceased hair, but also black glass, ebonite, pressed horn, gutta percha, bakelate, enamel etc. Also small mother of pearl beads, ivory, porcelain, gold, silver, marcasite, enamel and other dark or modest materials were acceptable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After Victorian times mourning faded away as fashion, but even as late as 1950&#8217;s and 60&#8217;s mourning veils were in use and black is considered still the most suitable clothing for funeral. But long mourning is nowhere near as popular as it used to be. Around the world the traditions vary of course and black isn&#8217;t the colour of mourning everywhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut1.jpg?resize=768%2C1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16145\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut1.jpg?resize=768%2C1024 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut1.jpg?resize=225%2C300 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut1.jpg?resize=150%2C200 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut1.jpg?resize=630%2C840 630w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut1.jpg?w=800 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption><strong>Olen huono tunnistamaan n\u00e4it\u00e4 materiaaleja, mutta n\u00e4m\u00e4 korut ovat selv\u00e4sti eri materiaalista tehtyj\u00e4. K\u00e4si on huomattavasti yksityiskohtaisempaa ty\u00f6t\u00e4 ja siin\u00e4 on ter\u00e4vempi\u00e4 reunoja. Kukkakorussa on py\u00f6re\u00e4mpi\u00e4, pehme\u00e4mpi\u00e4 yksityiskohtia ja reunoja. \/<br><em>I am not good at identifying these materials, but these two are clearly made of different materials. Hand is much more focused and sharp on details. Flower brooch has much rounder and softer details and edges. <\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut2.jpg?resize=768%2C1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16146\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut2.jpg?resize=768%2C1024 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut2.jpg?resize=225%2C300 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut2.jpg?resize=150%2C200 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut2.jpg?resize=630%2C840 630w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut2.jpg?w=800 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption><strong>Kukka n\u00e4ytt\u00e4\u00e4 paikoin jopa puumaiselta materiaalilta. \/<br><em>Flower looks little bit like wood even.<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut3.jpg?resize=730%2C990\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16147\" width=\"730\" height=\"990\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut3.jpg?resize=755%2C1024 755w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut3.jpg?resize=221%2C300 221w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut3.jpg?resize=147%2C200 147w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut3.jpg?resize=768%2C1042 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut3.jpg?w=800 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 730px) 100vw, 730px\" \/><figcaption><strong>Olen tyhmyytt\u00e4ni s\u00e4ilytt\u00e4nyt t\u00e4t\u00e4 korua peilip\u00f6yd\u00e4ll\u00e4, siksi se on ihan hirvitt\u00e4v\u00e4n p\u00f6lyinen. T\u00e4llaisesta pienest\u00e4 yksityskohtaisesta korusta p\u00f6lyn pyyhkiminen on todella hankalaa. Pahoittelut siit\u00e4, mutta ainakin yksityiskohdat erottuvat nyt paremmin. \/<br><em>I have kept this brooch on the dressing table, silly me. That&#8217;s why it is terribly dusty. Cleaning dust off of this kind of very detailed jewelry is very tricky. Apologies for that, but atleast now you can see the details well. <\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut4.jpg?resize=768%2C1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16148\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut4.jpg?resize=768%2C1024 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut4.jpg?resize=225%2C300 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut4.jpg?resize=150%2C200 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut4.jpg?resize=630%2C840 630w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut4.jpg?w=800 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption><strong>K\u00e4si-korusta puuttui neulan lukko joten tein siihen itse sellaisen. Kukkakorusta taas puuttuu neula, enk\u00e4 ole viel\u00e4 ehtinyt askarrella siihen uutta. Takapuolella n\u00e4kyv\u00e4t my\u00f6s selv\u00e4sti materiaalien erot. Alempi vaikuttaa sille kuin se olisi ehk\u00e4 valettu muottiin. Ylempi taas voisi olla kaiverrettu ja sen takaosa on pahasti krakeloitunut. Mahtaako siin\u00e4 olla joku pinnoite? \/<br><em>Hand brooch was missing a lock for the needle, so I made one. Flower brooch is missing a needle, but I haven&#8217;t had time to make a new one yet. On the back side you can also see the differences on the materials. Bottom one looks like has been cast. Upper one might have been carved and the backside is badly worn. I wonder if it has some sort of coating.<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"985\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut5.jpg?resize=800%2C985\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16149\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut5.jpg?w=800 800w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut5.jpg?resize=244%2C300 244w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut5.jpg?resize=162%2C200 162w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut5.jpg?resize=768%2C946 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption><strong>Korun neulamekanismissa on leima RD No 15623. En ole saanut sill\u00e4 tulokseksi oikein muuta tietoa kuin ett\u00e4 koru saattaisi olla vuodelta 1885. En ole kuitenkaan l\u00f6yt\u00e4nyt t\u00e4lle tiedolle mit\u00e4\u00e4n vahvistusta joten siihen kannattaa suhtautua hiukan varauksella. \/<br><em>Brooch needle mechanism has hallmark RD No 15623. I haven&#8217;t really found much information about that, except that perhaps the brooch is from 1885. However I have not been able to confirm this, so that information should be trusted with some reservations.<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kun mietin juttuaiheita joulukalenteria varten ajattelin, ett\u00e4 haluan ehdottomasti tarinoida t\u00e4ll\u00e4 kertaa viktoriaanisesta suruetiketist\u00e4. Se tuntuu nykyihmisest\u00e4 monesti jotenkin makaaberilta ja ep\u00e4sopivaltakin. Sureminen muotina oli sekin oman aikansa ilmi\u00f6. Suremisen nosti muotiin kuningatar Victoria. Puoliso Albertin kuollessa \u00e4killisesti, Victoria oli surun murtama, vietti l\u00e4hes eristyksiss\u00e4 vuosia ja k\u00e4ytti mustaa surupukua koko loppu el\u00e4m\u00e4ns\u00e4 ajan, 40&#8230; <\/p>\n<div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/?p=16079\">Read More<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16146,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"8\/12-21 Mourning jewelry and mourning etiquette In Victorian times","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[150,13,35],"tags":[317,329,89,64,235],"class_list":{"0":"post-16079","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","6":"hentry","7":"category-pukuhistoria","8":"category-vaatehtimo","9":"category-vintage","10":"tag-antiques","11":"tag-christmas-calendar-2021","12":"tag-jewelry","13":"tag-thrift-finds","14":"tag-vintage","16":"fallback-thumbnail"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.evildressmaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/surukorut2.jpg?fit=800%2C1067","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2H8as-4bl","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16079","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16079"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16079\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16150,"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16079\/revisions\/16150"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/16146"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16079"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16079"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16079"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}