{"id":11090,"date":"2016-01-14T23:49:06","date_gmt":"2016-01-14T21:49:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/?p=11090"},"modified":"2016-01-15T00:12:43","modified_gmt":"2016-01-14T22:12:43","slug":"etikettia-naisille-1860-etiquette-for-ladies-1860","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.evildressmaker.com\/?p=11090","title":{"rendered":"Etiketti\u00e4 naisille 1860 \/ Etiquette for Ladies 1860"},"content":{"rendered":"

Florence Hartley julkaisi etikettikirjan naisille vuonna 1860. Se sis\u00e4lt\u00e4\u00e4 kaikki mahdolliset sosiaaliset tilanteet joihin Lady saattaa joutua ja ohjeet niiss\u00e4 toimimiseen jotta k\u00e4yt\u00f6s olisi\u00a0mahdollisimman kohteliasta\u00a0eik\u00e4 loukkaisi muita mill\u00e4\u00e4n tavoin. Kuulostaa varsin hankalalta ja monimutkaiselta. T\u00e4ss\u00e4 muutamia otteita miten toimia julkisissa huvituksissa k\u00e4ydess\u00e4.<\/p>\n

Jos saat huvituksiin kutsun, joka sinun on sopivaa hyv\u00e4ksy\u00e4 (kaikkia kutsujahan ei tokikaan ole suotavaa ottaa vastaan)<\/strong><\/span>, vastaa siihen viipym\u00e4tt\u00e4 ilmoittamalla kellonaika jolloin\u00a0seuralaisesi voi saapua sinua noutamaan. Varmista ett\u00e4 olet ajoissa valmiina, my\u00f6h\u00e4styminen on eritt\u00e4in ep\u00e4kohteliasta.<\/p>\n

Teatterissa sinun tulee pit\u00e4\u00e4 bonnetti p\u00e4\u00e4ss\u00e4si, mutta voit riisua viittasi tai shaalisi jos niin haluat. Seuralaisesi astuu omalle paikalleen ensin, sitten h\u00e4n k\u00e4\u00e4ntyy ja tarjoaa k\u00e4tens\u00e4 saattaakseen sinut paikallesi. Kun esirippu on ylh\u00e4\u00e4ll\u00e4, kiinnit\u00e4 kaikki huomiosi esitykseen, kun esirippu on alhaalla kiinnit\u00e4 huomiosi seuralaiseesi.<\/p>\n

\u00c4l\u00e4 katsele teatterikiikareilla ymp\u00e4rillesi. Ladyn k\u00e4yt\u00f6s tulisi olla teatterissa vaatimatonta. Varo kaikkea liikett\u00e4 joka kiinnitt\u00e4\u00e4 muiden huomion. Viuhkan leyhyttely, kuiskuttelu kesken esityksen, n\u00e4ytt\u00e4v\u00e4t ihailun tai ilon eleet, kova\u00e4\u00e4ninen nauru tai taputus ovat vulgaareja eiv\u00e4tk\u00e4 ladylle sopivaa k\u00e4yt\u00f6st\u00e4.<\/p>\n

V\u00e4lt\u00e4 sormeilemasta ohjelmalehtist\u00e4 sill\u00e4 painomuste sotkee k\u00e4sineesi minuuteissa\u00a0ja saa k\u00e4tesi vaikuttamaan ep\u00e4siisteilt\u00e4 koko loppuillan.<\/p>\n

Teatterissa, oopperassa tai konserttisalissa sinun ei ole sopivaa ilmaista tunnistaneesi\u00a0tuttavasi, ellette ole riitt\u00e4v\u00e4n l\u00e4hell\u00e4 keskustellaksenne. Ladyn ei ole sopivaa kumartaa edes omalle sisarelleen konserttisalin halki.<\/p>\n

Florence Hartley – The Ladies book of Etiquette and manual of Politeness<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Seuraavan kerran kun l\u00e4hdette teatteriin tai konserttiin, tied\u00e4tte sitten miten kuuluu k\u00e4ytt\u00e4yty\u00e4. Ei vilkuttelua eik\u00e4 jutustelua ohjelman aikana! Olen kuullut juttuja ett\u00e4 joillekin t\u00e4m\u00e4 muistutus yleis\u00f6n etiketist\u00e4 saattaisi olla ihan paikallaan. Etikettikirja on kyll\u00e4 ihan viihdytt\u00e4v\u00e4\u00e4kin luettavaa. Se antaa viitteen siit\u00e4 miten rajoitettua ja s\u00e4\u00e4delty\u00e4 ylempien luokkien el\u00e4m\u00e4 oli. Kaikelle oli olemassa oma etiketti viuhkan k\u00e4yt\u00f6st\u00e4 kukkiin, k\u00e4sineiden riisumiseen ja juhlien em\u00e4nn\u00f6intiin.<\/p>\n

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Florence Hartley published book of etiquette for Ladies in 1860. It includes all possible social situations Lady might bump into, with complete instructions how to behave, to apprear as polite as possible and not to offend anyone. Sounds pretty tricky and complicated. Here are some tips how to behave in public amusements.<\/p>\n

If you receive an invitation to public amusement, which is appropriate for you to accept (not all invitations are appropriate to accept), write an answer immediately with the appointed time when your escort should pick you up. Make sure you are ready in time. Being late is very impolite.<\/p>\n

In theater \u00a0you should keep your bonnet on, but you can remove your cloak or shawl if you like. Your escort finds their seat first, then turn and offer their hand to lead you to your own. When curtain is up, give your attention only to the performance, when curtain is down give it to your escort.<\/p>\n

Don’t use your theater glasses to watch around the theater. Lady’s behaviour\u00a0should be modest in the theater. Avoid all movements that draws attention. Flirt a fan, whispering in the middle of the performance, extravagant gestures of admiration or joy, loud laughter or clapping are vulgar and not ladylike.<\/p>\n

Avoid fingering the program as the printing ink will smudge \u00a0your gloves in minutes and makes your hands to appear untidy rest of the evening.<\/p>\n

In theater, opera or concert hall, you are not expected to recognice your acquantances, unless you are close enough to be able to have a conversation. It is not suitable for a lady to bow even to her own sister across the concert hall.<\/p>\n

Florence Hartley – The Ladies book of Etiquette and manual of Politeness<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Next time when you go to the theater or concert you know how to behave. Now chatting during the program! I have heard rumours that for some people this reminder of audience etiquette might be in order. This book is quite amusing reading. It gives a hint about how strict and full of rules the life of upper classes was. There was etiquette for everything from using fans to flowers, taking of gloves and hosting parties.<\/p>\n

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K\u00e4sinmaalattu antiikkiviuhka – Antiikkimessuilta Englannista<\/strong><\/span>
\nTeatterikiikarit ja ven\u00e4l\u00e4inen lakkarasia – kirppis \/<\/strong><\/span>
\nHand painted antique fan – Antique fair, England<\/strong><\/span><\/em>
\nTheater glasses and Russian lacquer box – thrifted<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Florence Hartley julkaisi etikettikirjan naisille vuonna 1860. Se sis\u00e4lt\u00e4\u00e4 kaikki mahdolliset sosiaaliset tilanteet joihin Lady saattaa joutua ja ohjeet niiss\u00e4 toimimiseen jotta k\u00e4yt\u00f6s olisi\u00a0mahdollisimman kohteliasta\u00a0eik\u00e4 loukkaisi muita mill\u00e4\u00e4n tavoin. Kuulostaa varsin hankalalta ja monimutkaiselta. T\u00e4ss\u00e4 muutamia otteita miten toimia julkisissa huvituksissa k\u00e4ydess\u00e4. Jos saat huvituksiin kutsun, joka sinun on sopivaa hyv\u00e4ksy\u00e4 (kaikkia kutsujahan ei tokikaan… <\/p>\n

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